Tips on Overcoming Discouragement
Posted by: Bishop Shammah Womack-El in Untagged on
Jan 22, 2010
Discouragement . . . such a common emotion . . . how can we overcome it? How can we get beyond discouragement, and even learn from it? Boy... I can preach on this for days without stopping because I've been there so many times. Even as I'm blogging now I'm moving through it. Get it-through it not staying in it. Some of you on the fast my be feeling this as well but listen and read closely. If I never teach you anything else please take this to heart.
You may not have faced somethings just like my experiences, but I expect you have felt the heavy weight of discouragement. Maybe it came at work, as a project for which you had high hopes fell apart. Perhaps it had to do with a close relationship that splintered owing to a misunderstanding. Or your discouragement might have resulted from frustration with your inability to be the kind of person you know God wants you to be.First of all, if you want to overcome discouragement, allow yourself to feel discouraged. No, I don't recommend that you rev up negative feelings that aren't there. But if you are truly discouraged, don't pretend otherwise. Trust God enough to feel what you really feel.
Some Christians think that discouragement itself is something about which to be ashamed, almost as if it were a sin. One of my favorite hymns, "What a Friend We Have in Jesus," urges: "Have we trials and temptations? Is there trouble anywhere? We should never be discouraged; take it to the Lord in prayer." Perhaps in an ideal world we should never be discouraged. But in reality, discouragement is a normal part of human life. The Psalmist asked for God's help with despair (see Psalms 42-43). The Apostle Paul admitted his own deep discouragement (2 Cor. 1:8-9). If we deny our discouragement and pretend we're "just fine," we won't be able to overcome it. Knowing the source of your discouragement is essential to overcoming it. Maybe you were unrealistic in your hopes and need to learn to be more astute in your judgment. Maybe people you trusted let you down. Or maybe your discouragement is more generalized, a sign of burnout or broad dissatisfaction with your life. Discouragement could reflect underlying depression that is itself the symptom of deeper emotional discord. If you can accurately identify the cause of your discouragement, you'll be on the road to alleviating it. If you're discouraged, don't keep it to yourself. Don't let pride or shame prevent you from sharing honestly with people who will listen emphatically and respond wisely. Your gutsy openness will bring relief for you and freedom to others. Here's where I agree completely with "What a Friend We Have in Jesus." If you feel discouraged, "take it to the Lord in prayer." We can tell him everything, including the fact that we're discouraged. When we do, we begin to experience God's gracious peace.
When we share our discouragement with the Lord, we are open to discovering his presence in the midst of our unhappiness. Perhaps God is wanting to teach us something essential through our discouragement. Maybe he is redirecting our energies, our work, or our lives.
When we take our discouragement to the Lord in prayer, we find that our hope is redirected and rekindled. With the Psalmist, we confess, "And so, Lord, where do I put my hope? My only hope is in you" (Psalm 39:7). This doesn't mean we never trust others or expect their help. But it does remind us that God alone is fully trustworthy and that his help is both necessary and utterly reliable. The more we hope in God, focusing on his trustworthiness, the more we will find our discouragement melting away, replaced by confidence in God. Thus we not only overcome discouragement, but also it becomes an avenue to spiritual growth.Don't let discouragement kill your dream, desire, decision and destiny. Your assignment will require your total focus. I feel soooooo much better knowing that Jesus, Paul, Daniel and David encouraged themselves. My advice to you as a prophetic physician is trust in the Lord only he never disappoints but anoints. For me to live is Christ, to die is gain. Fasting eliminates discouragement if you continue..........in the faith. I'm starting my fast all over again for 21 days of No Discouragement. What are your thoughts??????? Peace.I Love you all no matter what.
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written by LENORE FOX, January 30, 2010
written by LENORE FOX, January 30, 2010
BISHOP, THANK YOU FOR TEACHING US THAT WHEN JESUS ENCOURAGES US TO COME, WE SHOULD CONTINUE ON WITH OUR EYES ON THE LORD. WHEN WE TAKE OUR EYES OFF JESUS, WE, LIKE PETER, BEGAN TO SINK BUT JESUS IS THERE TO PICK HIM UP AGAIN - IF WE LET HIM.
WE THANK GOD FOR YOU, BISHOP, BECAUSE YOU ARE PICKING US UP IN EVERY AREA OF OUR LIVES. WE JUST HAVE TO BE OPEN TO RECEIVE THE GOD-GIVEN, WISDOM, KNOWLEDGE AND GOD'S WORD WHICH MAKES YOU THE GREAT MAN OF GOD THAT YOU ARE.
I HAVE BEEN IN PAIN IN THE BODY, MIND AND ANY, AND EVERY WHERE THAT COULD BE ATTACKED ALL WEEK, BUT I REMEMBER YOUR TEACHINGS ON THIS ONE THING I DO AND STOP LETTING EVERYTHING OVER-POWER ME AND NOT KEEPING IN SPIRIT ALL THE TIME. WE ARE SPIRIT - OUR BODIES ARE GOD'S SPIRIT'S TRANSPORTATION, COMMUNICATION AND INHABITATION AND YOU TEACH US HOW TO TAKE CARE OF OUR BODIES, MINDS AND TO KEEP THE WORD OF GOD OUR FIRST WORD OF THE DAY.
YES, MAN OF GOD, YOU ARE A BLESSING TO ME AND TO ALL OF US WHO WILL RECEIVE THE GOD-APPOINTED SERVANT WHO GIVES ALL OF YOU FOR US TO BE HEALTHY, WEALTHY AND WISE. I REPENT FOR TAKING MY EYES OFF THE APPOINTED TIME AND PLACE DESIGNATED FOR ME BY GOD. FORGIVE ME LORD!
BLESS YOU, BISHOP!
WE THANK GOD FOR YOU, BISHOP, BECAUSE YOU ARE PICKING US UP IN EVERY AREA OF OUR LIVES. WE JUST HAVE TO BE OPEN TO RECEIVE THE GOD-GIVEN, WISDOM, KNOWLEDGE AND GOD'S WORD WHICH MAKES YOU THE GREAT MAN OF GOD THAT YOU ARE.
I HAVE BEEN IN PAIN IN THE BODY, MIND AND ANY, AND EVERY WHERE THAT COULD BE ATTACKED ALL WEEK, BUT I REMEMBER YOUR TEACHINGS ON THIS ONE THING I DO AND STOP LETTING EVERYTHING OVER-POWER ME AND NOT KEEPING IN SPIRIT ALL THE TIME. WE ARE SPIRIT - OUR BODIES ARE GOD'S SPIRIT'S TRANSPORTATION, COMMUNICATION AND INHABITATION AND YOU TEACH US HOW TO TAKE CARE OF OUR BODIES, MINDS AND TO KEEP THE WORD OF GOD OUR FIRST WORD OF THE DAY.
YES, MAN OF GOD, YOU ARE A BLESSING TO ME AND TO ALL OF US WHO WILL RECEIVE THE GOD-APPOINTED SERVANT WHO GIVES ALL OF YOU FOR US TO BE HEALTHY, WEALTHY AND WISE. I REPENT FOR TAKING MY EYES OFF THE APPOINTED TIME AND PLACE DESIGNATED FOR ME BY GOD. FORGIVE ME LORD!
BLESS YOU, BISHOP!
Redeemed...
written by Leatha Tukes, January 27, 2010
written by Leatha Tukes, January 27, 2010
Redeemed! My soul has been redeemed! Washed in the blood, my soul has been redeemed! After reading through this blog for the 3rd time
, those are the words that sprang forth from my heart. Thank you Father for the redeeming power of the blood of Jesus the Christ!
, those are the words that sprang forth from my heart. Thank you Father for the redeeming power of the blood of Jesus the Christ!
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written by Stanya Brandon, January 25, 2010
written by Stanya Brandon, January 25, 2010
Tonight's conference call was great. Receiving a peek into the Holistic Theology class was a treat. You are dedicated to what you believe in Bishop. That's for sure. Also, know that you never have to apologize about family being first. It was evident that Lady Womack-El and Ephraim were not the same on Sunday. Enjoy your wife, children and eventually some rest! Until tomorrow...
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written by Stanya Brandon, January 25, 2010
written by Stanya Brandon, January 25, 2010
I just received the message about tonight's call. Bishop, I'm glad you and the crew returned safely. I hope you share some of the trip with us tonight or another time very soon. Darlene, shared an excellent word at all 3 sessions! She was flowing in God and in your spirit. See you on the call tonight. Be blessed.
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written by LENORE FOX, January 25, 2010
written by LENORE FOX, January 25, 2010
DEAR BISHOP. I AM HAPPY FOR YOU! YOU HAVE BEEN WAITING A LONG TIME TO FEEL WHAT YOU ARE FEELING. WE SHOULD ALL BE HAPPY FOR YOU BECAUSE WHEN OUR LEADER IS AT PEACE IN HIS HEART AND FEELS HEALED, WE SHOULD ALL REJOICE! THE DEDICATION AND DEVOTION AND STICK-IT TO IT ABILITIES THAT OUR MINISTER THAT BROUGHT OUR FRIDAY'S AND SUNDAY'S MESSAGE COMPARE'S TO NONE OTHER AT THE TEMPLE. WHEN OUR LEADER IS AT PEACE IN HIS/HER HEART, HE IS MORE OPEN TO HEAR GOD WITHOUT CLUTTER. GOD WORKS IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS-WITH MANY SIGNS AND WONDERS THAT BECOME CLEARER AND CLEARER. YOUR HAPPINESS IS WHAT IS IMPORTANT TO ME! BE BLESSED!
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written by Stanya Brandon, January 23, 2010
written by Stanya Brandon, January 23, 2010
Wow Bishop Womack-El! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. Your thoughts are helpful, healing, inspiring and directional. I have learned the hard way not to suppress what I feel. I used to suppress thoughts of discouragement and it took me some time to realize that it resulted in depression. I was going through the motions of life, going to church, work, etc. I was still depressed. I was being religious but not spiritual. I was "handling it" the way I thought God wanted me to "handle it" rather than just being with him and giving my discouragement, hurts, faults and all to him. Until I began to just cry out my true feelings to the Lord, the good, the bad and the ugly, I couldn't make the first step to progress forward. I was just spinning my wheels, walking in place. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that the Lord directed me to this ministry, to you as my mentor and to even relocate to New Jersey. There are several definitions for the word jersey. One of them is fabric; the finest of wool separated from the rest. God has been reweaving the fabric of my life, my character, my relationship with him in newness. My experiences have not always been pleasant but this process has and continues to be ugly and beautiful, simultaneously. The end result is/will be all beautiful. I desire to be the best ME, the best expression of God through my god-given personality. We are each unique. We are fearfully and wonderfully made. We each have the individual responsibility to express God in the highest form. None other can express God in Me the way I can. Therefore, I must express him to the fullest. Your divinely inspired words have encouraged me to continuously draw closer and closer unto the Almighty God. I recognize you as an honorable man of God, bishop, prophet, pastor, husband, father, son, brother, mentor, teacher, business man and bond-servant to the Lord. I have the utmost respect for you. Thank you for your sacrifice. I commit myself to greater sacrifice. Your example is not just to be praised, it is to be followed. Much love, one of your TRL members. God bless you and your family. Also, may you and your team go in peace, quietness, wisdom, safety, quickness, order, strength, courage and the love of God.
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written by Leatha Tukes, January 23, 2010
written by Leatha Tukes, January 23, 2010
Bishop, I am thankful for honesty and transparency allowing yourself to be an example as well as teacher. The Christ in you is shining brightly as you carry out the current mission the Father has entrusted to you. Continued blessings to you as you sow seeds on fertile ground that will bring forth an abundant harvest in due season.
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written by lady womack-el, January 23, 2010
written by lady womack-el, January 23, 2010
Bishop, as I read your 2 most recent blogs, I feel speechless. I am only left with these few, simple words: I love you, I need you, you are beautiful, GOD in you shines the light of His warmth and glory, ...and come home safely and very, very soon. Despite the dis-courage-ment you may feel, you are the most courageous man I know!
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written by LENORE FOX, January 23, 2010
written by LENORE FOX, January 23, 2010
Dear Bishop, Thank you for caring and sharing all of you without holding anything back. As you are working hard in the cold to help others, God is working totally and completely within you - warming you up with many abundant Blessings within, without and all around - most especially, total Healing. The world is Blessed to have you as its Prophetic Physician and I am Blessed to be in your God-filled presence. Be safe, Be Blessed and Be Back Home!
Bishop Womack-El,
January 22, 2010
Tonight I have seen the charm, the beauty. the grace of your face that I was looking for. I am bewildered by the magnificence of your beauty and I wish I could see you with a thousand eyes. For you have refreshed my soul tonight and warmed my heart in this brutal cold night and made it right.My heart has burned with passion for this wondrous beauty. Thank you, God for this fast at last that has lit a fire in my heart and have made me glad to do the mission of your commission. As I load the planes, i see it more plainly. My arrow of love has arrived at the target. I am in the house of mercy and my heart is a place of fasting and prayer. Thank you, God In Me. I'm ready for whatever.......I'm just expressing the spirit I feel. Healed!
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God has guaranteed our success if we put our trust in Him to help us overcome discouragement and become the productive, happy and successful persons we were meant to be.